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Birthday letter for your wife

Dear Mama,

This is the first birthday I get to wish you as the mother of our child, and I have been thinking for weeks about how to put it into words.

I have watched you change this year, and I do not mean the sleepless nights, although there have been plenty. I mean the way you have grown into something fierce and tender at the same time. You know every cry. You remember every feeding time. You sing to our baby in a voice I have never heard before, a voice that sounds like pure love, and every time I hear it I fall for you again.

I know some days feel like too much. I know you sometimes miss the old you, the one who slept in and finished her coffee while it was hot. She is still here, and I see her. I love her. I also love the mother you have become, and I want you to know you are doing beautifully.

Letter · for your wife

Birthday · Letter · 206 words · for a card, email or keepsake

Written by the Peoplewisher team

Original and free to use, personal or business

  • Fills in their name

    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

Dear Mama,

This is the first birthday I get to wish you as the mother of our child, and I have been thinking for weeks about how to put it into words.

I have watched you change this year, and I do not mean the sleepless nights, although there have been plenty. I mean the way you have grown into something fierce and tender at the same time. You know every cry. You remember every feeding time. You sing to our baby in a voice I have never heard before, a voice that sounds like pure love, and every time I hear it I fall for you again.

I know some days feel like too much. I know you sometimes miss the old you, the one who slept in and finished her coffee while it was hot. She is still here, and I see her. I love her. I also love the mother you have become, and I want you to know you are doing beautifully.

Today, please rest. Let me hold the baby, let your friends spoil you and let yourself be celebrated. You carried our family into a new life this year. Now let us carry you for a while.

All my love, always,

Make it personal

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    Start with one memory. The night you met, the first apartment, the hospital at 3 a.m. One specific detail makes the message hers alone.

  2. 2

    Say what usually goes unsaid. Thank her for something she does every day that nobody notices. That line is the one she will reread.

  3. 3

    Pair it with a gesture. Read it to her over breakfast, tuck it in her bag or write it in a card next to a gift.

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