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Birthday letter for your husband

My dear husband,

I have started this letter four times, because every version turned into a list of things I am grateful for, and the list kept getting longer. So I am going to let it be a list, at least in part.

Thank you for the alarms you set before dawn and the long days you never complain about. Thank you for the way you make our kids feel safe, for the bedtime stories with the silly voices, for teaching them that being kind matters more than being right. Thank you for the cups of coffee left on my nightstand and the times you took over without being asked.

Most of all, thank you for how you loved me in the seasons when I was hard to love. When I was anxious, you were steady. When I was tired, you carried more. You never kept score, not once.

Letter · for your husband

Birthday · Letter · 191 words · for a card, email or keepsake

Written by the Peoplewisher team

Original and free to use, personal or business

  • Fills in their name

    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

My dear husband,

I have started this letter four times, because every version turned into a list of things I am grateful for, and the list kept getting longer. So I am going to let it be a list, at least in part.

Thank you for the alarms you set before dawn and the long days you never complain about. Thank you for the way you make our kids feel safe, for the bedtime stories with the silly voices, for teaching them that being kind matters more than being right. Thank you for the cups of coffee left on my nightstand and the times you took over without being asked.

Most of all, thank you for how you loved me in the seasons when I was hard to love. When I was anxious, you were steady. When I was tired, you carried more. You never kept score, not once.

I know you do not like a fuss, but today you are getting one anyway. You give so much of yourself to all of us. Let today be the day we give some back. Happy birthday, my love.

With all my gratitude,

Make it personal

  1. 1

    Name what he does. The coffee on your nightstand, the car he warms up, the way he is with the kids. Small, real details hit hardest.

  2. 2

    Thank him out loud. Many men rarely hear appreciation. One plain line of gratitude can mean more than a paragraph of romance.

  3. 3

    Make it a moment. Slip it into his lunch, text it before his first meeting or read it to him over a birthday dinner.

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