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Birthday letter for your girlfriend

My love,

Happy birthday. I wanted to write you something longer than a text this year, because a text never seems to hold everything I feel about you.

I think about the day we met more often than you would guess. I remember being nervous, then instantly at ease, like I had known you for years. That feeling has never gone away. With you, I get to be completely myself, and somehow you love that person anyway.

You make the hard days lighter and the good days unforgettable. You notice when I am quiet, you laugh at my worst jokes and you remind me to chase the things I am scared of. I love your kindness, your curiosity and the way you light up a room without even trying.

Letter · for your girlfriend

Birthday · Letter · 182 words · for a card, email or keepsake

Written by the Peoplewisher team

Original and free to use, personal or business

  • Fills in their name

    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

My love,

Happy birthday. I wanted to write you something longer than a text this year, because a text never seems to hold everything I feel about you.

I think about the day we met more often than you would guess. I remember being nervous, then instantly at ease, like I had known you for years. That feeling has never gone away. With you, I get to be completely myself, and somehow you love that person anyway.

You make the hard days lighter and the good days unforgettable. You notice when I am quiet, you laugh at my worst jokes and you remind me to chase the things I am scared of. I love your kindness, your curiosity and the way you light up a room without even trying.

This year, I hope you feel how special you are, not just today, but every day. I hope you get time for the things that make you happy and people who treat you gently. I promise to keep showing up, keep listening and keep holding your hand through all of it.

Forever yours,

Make it personal

  1. 1

    Be specific. Skip generic compliments. Name the thing only she does, like the way she laughs at her own jokes before the punchline.

  2. 2

    Match where you are. New relationship? Keep it sweet and light. Years in? Go deep and say the things you rarely say out loud.

  3. 3

    Pair it with a moment. Send a text when she wakes up, then save the long message for the card at dinner.

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