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Birthday letter for your best friend

Dear Sam,

As your best friend, I am contractually obliged to write you a birthday letter. I have checked the fine print, and there is no way out. So grab a snack and settle in.

First, a confession: I keep a mental list of every ridiculous thing we have done together. The road trip where we got lost for four hours and blamed the GPS. The dinner party where the oven caught fire and we served cereal. The haircut you talked me into, which we agreed never to speak of again. It is a long list, and I would not trade a single item on it.

Second, a serious bit, so brace yourself. You make my life better. You make everything funnier, every problem smaller and every celebration louder. I do not say it enough because we are usually too busy laughing, but I am deeply grateful for you.

Letter · for your best friend

Birthday · Letter · 181 words · for a card, email or keepsake

Written by the Peoplewisher team

Original and free to use, personal or business

  • Fills in their name

    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

Dear {firstname},

As your best friend, I am contractually obliged to write you a birthday letter. I have checked the fine print, and there is no way out. So grab a snack and settle in.

First, a confession: I keep a mental list of every ridiculous thing we have done together. The road trip where we got lost for four hours and blamed the GPS. The dinner party where the oven caught fire and we served cereal. The haircut you talked me into, which we agreed never to speak of again. It is a long list, and I would not trade a single item on it.

Second, a serious bit, so brace yourself. You make my life better. You make everything funnier, every problem smaller and every celebration louder. I do not say it enough because we are usually too busy laughing, but I am deeply grateful for you.

Finally, a promise. I will keep showing up with snacks, bad advice and terrible singing for as many birthdays as we get. Happy birthday, you wonderful weirdo.

Yours in chaos and cake,

Make it personal

  1. 1

    Start with your shared history. The road trip, the terrible first apartment, the group chat. A hint at a story only you two know makes it feel personal.

  2. 2

    Mix funny with sincere. Open with a joke, end with the real thing. A single line like “I am so glad you were born” goes a long way.

  3. 3

    Pick your moment. A text first thing in the morning, a long message on social media or a handwritten letter in their card.

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