Belated birthday letter for a friend

Dear Sam,

This letter is late, and I am sorry for that. But I did not want to send a quick line and move on, because a friend like you deserves more than a rushed message.

I have been thinking about everything you did for me this past year. The evening you came over with dinner when work was crushing me. The way you talked me out of a very bad decision without once making me feel foolish. The random texts that said nothing more than “thinking of you” and somehow fixed my whole day. You probably do not remember half of it. I remember all of it.

That is the kind of friend you are: generous without keeping score, honest without being harsh, and always, always there. I do not say it enough, so let me say it clearly now. Thank you. You have made my life better in ways big and small.

S Sam

Dear Sam, This letter is late, and I am sorry for that. But I did not want to send a quick line and move on, because a friend like you deserves more than a rushed message. I have been thinking about everything you did for me this past year. The evening you came over with dinner when work was crushing me. The way you talked me out of a very bad decision without once making me feel foolish. The random texts that said nothing more than “thinking of you” and somehow fixed my whole day. You probably do not remember half of it. I remember all of it. That is the kind of friend you are: generous without keeping score, honest without being harsh, and always, always there. I do not say it enough, so let me say it clearly now. Thank you. You have made my life better in ways big and small. I hope your birthday was full of love, and I hope this new year treats you with the same care you give so freely to others. Gratefully yours,

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Dear Sam,

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S Sam

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🎉 Dear Sam, This letter is late, and I am sorry for that. But I did not want to send a quick line and move on, because a friend like you deserves more than a rushed message. I have been thinking about everything you did for me this past year. The evening you came over with dinner when work was crushing me. The way you talked me out of a very bad decision without once making me feel foolish. The random texts that said nothing more than “thinking of you” and somehow fixed my whole day. You probably do not remember half of it. I remember all of it. That is the kind of friend you are: generous without keeping score, honest without being harsh, and always, always there. I do not say it enough, so let me say it clearly now. Thank you. You have made my life better in ways big and small. I hope your birthday was full of love, and I hope this new year treats you with the same care you give so freely to others. Gratefully yours,

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Belated birthday · Letter · 182 words · for a card, email or keepsake

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{firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.
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Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.
Can repeat every year
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The letter

Dear {firstname},
This letter is late, and I am sorry for that. But I did not want to send a quick line and move on, because a friend like you deserves more than a rushed message.
I have been thinking about everything you did for me this past year. The evening you came over with dinner when work was crushing me. The way you talked me out of a very bad decision without once making me feel foolish. The random texts that said nothing more than “thinking of you” and somehow fixed my whole day. You probably do not remember half of it. I remember all of it.
That is the kind of friend you are: generous without keeping score, honest without being harsh, and always, always there. I do not say it enough, so let me say it clearly now. Thank you. You have made my life better in ways big and small.
I hope your birthday was full of love, and I hope this new year treats you with the same care you give so freely to others.
Gratefully yours,

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