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Belated birthday letter for your brother

Dear Sam,

This is your official, very late, extremely sorry birthday letter. I would like to point out that it is still technically your birthday month, which in my book makes this only slightly late. I suspect you will not accept that argument.

In my defense, I remembered your birthday perfectly every year when Mom was reminding me. This year she trusted me to do it myself, and here we are. I have learned a valuable lesson about independence.

Here is how I plan to make it up to you. One evening out, my treat. You choose the food, the drinks and the conversation topics, even if that means listening to your full analysis of last season. I will not check my phone. I will not complain. I may even let you win at pool.

Letter · for your brother

Belated birthday · Letter · 158 words · for a card, email or keepsake

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    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

Dear {firstname},

This is your official, very late, extremely sorry birthday letter. I would like to point out that it is still technically your birthday month, which in my book makes this only slightly late. I suspect you will not accept that argument.

In my defense, I remembered your birthday perfectly every year when Mom was reminding me. This year she trusted me to do it myself, and here we are. I have learned a valuable lesson about independence.

Here is how I plan to make it up to you. One evening out, my treat. You choose the food, the drinks and the conversation topics, even if that means listening to your full analysis of last season. I will not check my phone. I will not complain. I may even let you win at pool.

Jokes aside, you are a great brother, and I am lucky to have you. Happy belated birthday, bro.

Your forgetful but devoted sibling,

Make it personal

  1. 1

    Keep the apology short. One honest line or one self-deprecating joke. Your brother does not need a speech, just proof you care.

  2. 2

    Say the thing you never say. A late message is the perfect cover for one sincere sentence about how much he matters.

  3. 3

    Put a plan on the table. Tickets to a game, a round of drinks or a barbecue at your place. Make the do-over real.

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