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Belated birthday letter for your boyfriend

Dear you,

I found the gift I bought for you weeks ago still hidden in my closet, wrapped and ready, and that is when it hit me that your birthday had already passed. I had the present. I just did not have the date. I am so sorry, and a little embarrassed, and mostly sad that you did not get to open it on the right day.

You will get to open it now, along with this letter, because I wanted you to have more than a hurried sorry.

Here is what I would have said on your birthday morning. You are the best surprise of my life. I did not expect to find someone who could make me laugh this hard and feel this safe at the same time. I love that you sing in the car, that you cannot sit through a movie without asking questions and that you always save me the last fry. I love that you believe in me when I am not sure I believe in myself.

Letter · for your boyfriend

Belated birthday · Letter · 191 words · for a card, email or keepsake

Written by the Peoplewisher team

Original and free to use, personal or business

  • Fills in their name

    {firstname} becomes their first name when Peoplewisher sends it.

  • Works on every channel

    Short enough for a text, warm enough for a card.

  • Can repeat every year

    Save their date and it goes out on the day, automatically.

The letter

Dear you,

I found the gift I bought for you weeks ago still hidden in my closet, wrapped and ready, and that is when it hit me that your birthday had already passed. I had the present. I just did not have the date. I am so sorry, and a little embarrassed, and mostly sad that you did not get to open it on the right day.

You will get to open it now, along with this letter, because I wanted you to have more than a hurried sorry.

Here is what I would have said on your birthday morning. You are the best surprise of my life. I did not expect to find someone who could make me laugh this hard and feel this safe at the same time. I love that you sing in the car, that you cannot sit through a movie without asking questions and that you always save me the last fry. I love that you believe in me when I am not sure I believe in myself.

Happy belated birthday, my love. The gift was late. The way I feel about you never is.

Yours,

Make it personal

  1. 1

    Keep the apology short. Own it in a line or two. A long explanation starts to sound like you are asking him to comfort you.

  2. 2

    Celebrate him for real. Mention one thing you love about him, from the way he makes you laugh to how he shows up when it counts.

  3. 3

    Name the make-up plan. Tickets, a dinner, a day trip. Put the plan in the message so he has something to look forward to.

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